It's Anti-Procrastination Tuesdays #7!
I am beginning to understand how tasks end up on the Ultimate To-Do. We mentally sort tasks by several key factors: desirability of task action, need for end result, and if the task has a definite deadline. Since our time is not unlimited, our minds have to form a triage mentality to see what has to be done immediately versus what can wait. Unfortunately, the more tasks that must be done immediately continue to postpone the ever-growing Ultimate To-Do.
For a practical illustration, I am playing keyboards for church on Sunday. I need to practice the music. However, upon arriving home from work, I discovered the Jack Russell had peed in her crate. That particular event created a string of immediate to-do's that took up the time that could have been spent practicing my music. Although the desirability of the task of bleaching out her crate & giving her a bath was low, the need for a clean crate & dog was highly important & needed to be completed before friends came over for the evening. Thus dealing with the dog situation was accomplished, practicing music was not.
In a way, I tend to resent these immediate tasks since they throw my plans for a loop. They get in my way, take up the time I thought I could devote elsewhere & generally put me in something of a sour mood. But I seriously need to get over that. In reality, I don't own my time. I don't have a claim on doing a specific task at a specific time; I have no right to believe my plans are the way things should go. Hence, the Ultimate To-Do grows, but it keeps me on my toes. :)
And for your viewing pleasure, a sunrise over Twin Sisters in Colorado (elev. 12,000ish)
wow, you totally pin pointed my number one struggle as a mom...immediate surprise tasks!!! They come constantly and fiercely some (most) days, and I DON'T LIKE MY PLANS RUINED! (can you hear the selfishness oozing out all over that??:))
ReplyDeleteTHANK YOU for the great reminder that "we don't own our time, and have no right to believe my plans are the way things should go."
Oh, how selfish I am!! Oh to learn that my Creator is the Ultimate time owner and knows exactly the way things should go for me!!
As always, thank you so much for linking up!
There was a popular book many years ago titled "The Tyranny of the Urgent". Pretty much sums it up.
ReplyDeleteLove this Kristen. Definitely, time is something I feel us singles can get really touchy about REALLY fast. Which is ironic, because we have a lot of it.
ReplyDeleteI was just reading about self-discipline/with-holding what we desire is part of learning to be refined by God/people. Letting go of the "desirables" for the "responsibles."
Still chewing...
gorgeous, glorious shot!!
ReplyDeleteI find this happening all the time in my life too. I tend to write to do lists every day and as things happen I write them on too and then cross them off right away as they are already done. That way at least I feel like I have done something productive. When all I do is taking care of the immidiate things I also end up feeling like I got nothing done.
ReplyDeleteSo well written, thank you.